Tonto Dikeh Tells It like It Is--Again

I just finished watching the movie " Shame Unto Her " Starring Tontoh Dikeh , one of my favorite African Actors. There are many great talents in Nollywood but i admire Tonto not only for her talent but her ability to stand in the truth of who she is no matter what may come.  I was in the process of looking her twitter account up to tell her that while I celebrate where is is now with her music--I really do miss seeing her on the screens in movies. I came across this and just had to share. Forget all the hype, this is why I love her. To more bad-ass sisters doing there own thing and living according to their own truth everywhere--Cheers.

Read her rants below: –

Catch flights don’t catch feelings?So tell me,what is your reason for being? The purpose of your existence? The same reasons why many of us are here in the first place…I don’t mean to kill the BOSS attitudes,but I work with bosses all the time. The people who prioritised work over relationships aren’t happy with their Lives.

You have to be able to find a balance,Yes we all have an economic reality,But No,money can’t love you. Be happy at every opportunity,never repress your love for the sake of trying to make enough money” What is enough? Can you feed your self? Do you have a bed to sleep in at night?

Yet you want a bigger bed,Forgetting that you could be looking for some1 to share it with. Dont miss out on a family just for money… Don’t turn into a bitter and cynical person because you were in love once & it didn’t work out.. Yes you invest emotional energy into your partner,but you will always have more energy…. You have a lot of Love to Give.

Energy can’t be destroyed so you can’t say it was wasted. Your partner cheated on you… Doesn’t mean all humans are cheats. My ex was a cheat,A prolific internet whore and a FAKE but that didn’t stop me from loving even harder the next time….. You have to be in it to win it. Building breakable barriers will leave you lonely. 
Loneliness would leave you SAD If you don’t allow people to get close to you then yes you might not hurt,but you will never FEEL. Feelings are just VISITORS,Let them Come and Go. So catch feelings and flights,but don’t forget LOVE,because that is what all humans need. Don’t let modern trends change your mindset in CYNICAL ways… 
Leaving a life without Love,is not Living at all.LET LOVE REIN #POKOBARS